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Friday, March 14, 2014

Community

Well, I have to start out today with obligatory cute baby photos. Obviously.
 
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And an obligatory picture of my cute husband. He is having lots of fun with all the kids wherever he goes. Just like in Minnesota, they follow him wherever he goes.
Here are a few pictures of preschool this morning. The kids were certainly enjoying the new toys from the Fergus Falls middle schoolers!
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So, so far, we know that Children of the Promise (COTP) takes care of babies and has a Formula and Medika Mamba program. What else does COTP do?

They have an awesome prenatal program. Women attend the program wherever they are at in their pregnancy, receive vitamins, rice, beans, and lots of health, pregnancy, breastfeeding, and attachment education. COTP's nurse said to me today, "You know how I can tell when a mom brings me a baby that she was a participant in our prenatal program? Their babies are always the really big, fat, healthy ones." It doesn't get better than that. The remodel of the baby house is going to include a great space for community education. Haven't heard about the remodel? Check it out here.

You know what else I love about COTP? Job creation. You guys, this is SOOOOOO huge. One of Haiti's biggest problems is the lack of jobs for people. COTP employs 100 Haitians.Multiple that by the number of people in a Haitian family and the impact is getting really big! They try to make sure to employ at least one Haitian from each family in the neighboring village, so the entire village is effected. Right now, there is a past director from COTP here with us. The last time she was in Haiti was six years ago. She was describing the difference between their living conditions after working at COTP for years. At first, they started out with stick walls and a thatch roof. Now most all of them live in cement houses. Their lives are better because of COTP.

Last night, I ended with a post about food, and tonight it is coming down to that too. Why? Because food and shelter are basic, basic, basic human needs and people all over the world tonight are not going to bed with those needs met.

But tonight, because of COTP, one little boy will have these needs met. The Starfish Principle at work again!
Tonight while we were having a movie party for the international staff's kids, one of the staff came and asked me if I could make up an extra plate of food. A little 11 year old boy had come to the gate. He had been sitting outside of the police station for the past two days and had no where to go. He hadn't eaten in days. This isn't something that COTP typically does because they focus on babies. But they won't turn away a child in need. They will find a more suitable place for him tomorrow. But, tonight, he will stay at COTP and will go to sleep with a full belly.

Please consider helping with the Remodeling Project!  Here is the link to give online If you want to send a check, please send it to:
Children of the Promise
PO Box 123
Prinsburg, MN 56281

Online or by check, please write: Baby House Remodel, Fergus Falls Team. We would like to report back to you how much money our family and friends help raise. So far we've raised $135.

Will you also help by sharing this blog?


Thursday, March 13, 2014

So Much More

The beauty of Haiti amazes me. We are loving every moment of our trip.
We were busy today, some of us spending time in the Pharmacy, some of us painting, some of us doing therapy, some feeding babies, some of us making a meal and watching kids so house parents can go out on a date, all of us trying to bless the staff and the Haitian people, and some working extra hard in the Haitian sun to dig a drainage ditch. We are learning and soaking in Haiti.
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  Mike comes all the way to Haiti to play with toys.
A highlight of today was meeting nannies who took care of Reese. This is Rosemae. I took a book of pictures of Reese to see if anyone recognized him. She jumped up and down and shrieked and yelled when I showed him her picture. We hugged several times. We both said, "Mesi" (thank you) back and forth over and over again. She let me take her picture so I could show Reese. Then tonight we all sang hymns together in English and Kreyol and ended with Reese's favorite hymn, "It is Well with My Soul."

I had visions of writing eloquent, beautiful posts (as if I've done that before) to share with you my heart about Haiti. Truthfully, it's all so overwhelming and there is so much I want to share with you that I'm having a hard time forming coherent thoughts. I'm going to give it my best fragmented shot and pray that God will do the rest.

Children of the Promise (COTP) does so much more than caring for kids before they go home to adoptive families. The rest of the week, I want to share with you everything else they are doing. Because at the end of the day, I want less orphans. I want more Haitians to be able to parent their children. I don't want moms and dads to have to give up their babies because they aren't able to feed them. 

COTP is doing this! They have less babies in their care than they have had for a very long time. A large reason that this is happening is because of their Formula and Medika Mamba programs. Today I want to tell you about the Medika Mamba Program.
Medika Mamba is an amazing nutritional product that is made right in Haiti (jobs for Haitians, yay!). It is fortified peanut butter that has many essential nutrients and vitamins. Each package is 500 calories. Children in the program are given 3packages to eat per day. When they are admitted into the program, they are also given a round of antibiotics and a de-wormer to make sure there isn't any other reason they aren't gaining weight. They have anywhere from 40-50 children on this program at any time.

Children have to be significantly below their recommended weight for their height to be admitted to the program. They receive Medika Mamba until they are within a healthy weight range. Then when they reach that weight, the staff works with them to transition them into not needing the assistance any more.
These little cuties are on Medika Mamba and came in for a check up today. They are four years old. You might not be able to tell that they are very small, but they looked like two year olds.

Another little boy with special needs came in for a check up. I didn't take his picture. It's hard. I want to share with you, but I also didn't want to share a picture of him just for shock value. His mom brought him in and he was all smiles. He couldn't walk. His mom carried him here. We put him on the scale and he weighed 25 pounds. Ten years old. 25 pounds. Most American babies weigh that around their first birthday. I have a ten year old. He weighs 80 pounds and he is strong and lean. I don't know what to do with that paradox. But, I have to do something.

And friends, you could tell by interacting with him, he was LOVED. His family just needed help. He has already gained five pounds on Medika Mamba since starting the program in the fall. Since COTP is moving to family based homes, like The Grace and Joy Houses (read yesterday's post), they are remodeling their big building which used to house 60-70 babies at a time into a space that is going to be more community driven. Read a detailed post about the remodel here.

Part of the remodel is making the space for serving children receiving Medika Mamba bigger, making their medical space bigger. When kids are in the Mamba program, they also receive health care from COTP.

Now comes the ask: will you partner with COTP to prevent orphans? That is the best orphan care possible: to prevent them in the first place. They need to raise a little under $30,000 to complete their remodel. The amount sounds large, but we are talking about completely changed lives. Ten year old boys who weigh 25 pounds getting the food and nutrients they need.

I usually hate asking for money. I'm too Minnesota-nice and don't want to come off as pushy, but when it comes to the widow, the orphan, and the oppresssed, and a 25 pound ten year old boy, I'm going to ask.

Here is where the starfish story comes in: this blog is being shared a lot (thank you). If everyone gave a little bit, we can make a big dent in this number. When talking with the directors about this fundraising effort, they asked, "How much money do you think you'd be able to raise?" I wasn't sure what to say, but I told them I have some pretty amazing friends.

Hey, if you want to give your tax return or a big gift, we'll take that too! Here is the link to give online If you want to send a check, please send it to:
Children of the Promise
PO Box 123
Prinsburg, MN 56281

Online or by check, please write: Baby House Remodel, Fergus Falls Team. We would like to report back to you how much money our family and friends help raise.

Will you also help by sharing this blog?

Correction: Landon would like to correct his weight: he weighs 84.5 pounds just after eating Dairyland with clothes on.

Disclaimer: Children of the Promise has given explicit permission for the posting of photos on this site.  Photos taken of children in the care of Children of the Promise are not to be posted publicly without explicit permission given by Children of the Promise.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

First Day and the Impact YOU Have Made



UPDATE: Haiti internet works better in the afternoon

Haiti. Truthfully, I didn’t love Haiti on my first trip four years ago. In fact, I feel there was a promise I made to myself to never leave U.S. soil again.  I LOVED my son and I wanted to love Haiti for his sake. I’ve grown to love Haiti as I’ve advocated for it on behalf of its children. And I’m so glad that I broke that promise to myself and that we are all here!

Children of the Promise (COTP) is an amazing place. Most of you reading might know of it because our adoption, but it does SOOOOO much more than adoption. And, I’m going to tell you all about that tomorrow and ask you to partner with me about a project.

Tonight, I want to give thanks for the first day here and what all of you have already done.Today we had a tour of the property. WOW! COTP does amazing things! We played with kids who have special needs and learned how to do therapy with them, the guys painted, we sorted supplies (for a long time), sang with the nannies, went to try and track down some of our luggage, and spent time with the staff.

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 Therapy Time with Kids with Special Needs
 
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Seriously, this child does not stop loving.
 
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A baby for both mom and daughter 
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Brigette loving some baby time too.
I feel like practically everyone that I know has supported COTP and some people that I don’t even know. How do I even begin to say thank you for the amazing community effort? 

~From the $250 gift card from an old high school friend 
~To friends dropping cash off at my house before I left
~To friends who served at a Pancake Breakfast at Applebees 
~To friends who offer their talent to raise money
~To friends who help me organize
~To friends who help kids raise money
~To people who give me gifts in the name of COTP 
~To people who sit with me selling Haitian jewelry 
~To people who pray

I hardly know what to say. Thank you doesn’t seem enough and there are so many of you, I could never list them in fear of forgetting someone.

The supplies we’ve gathered. WOW. I’ve been meaning to take a picture of all the supplies, but the truth is, I can’t get them all in one picture, there is so much. We brought fifteen 50 pound suitcases all donated from YOU. Here is where I was going to insert a pic of the medical supplies. This stuff is not cheap. At all. Thank you.




And, the Grace House… over a year’s time, our family and friends raised almost $20,000 for the building of the first baby house.


This was done in the name of Ayana Grace and Ayla Grace Alt, twin daughters of Mike and Annie Alt. This is a beautiful house that children live in like families until they go home with their adoptive parents. So much better than institutional care. So beautiful to see it in real life. You all would be proud!

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Tomorrow, I want to share with you what else COTP is up to. It’s A LOT! Please share this blog!

Disclaimer: Children of the Promise has given explicit permission for the posting of photos on this site. Photos taken of children in the care of Children of the Promise are not to be posted publicly without explicit permission given by Children of the Promise.

Sunday, March 9, 2014

Wanna come along for the ride?

That cheesy starfish story. Have you heard it? Dave and I heard it years ago and thought it was cute but didn't give it much thought. 

It's over there on the righthand side of the blog if you want to read it.

Four years ago, after deciding to add our youngest son, Reese, to our family, we were looking at each other like deer in the highlights, "Are we really going to be parents to FIVE children?" Then Dave brought up the starfish story. "We will make a difference for that ONE." 

Reese's referral picture. It will always be my favorite. When Dave saw it, he said, 
"Well, he must be a cool kid, he likes cake. Like father, like son.

The enormity of the world's problems make me want to crawl in a hole. Orphans? Slave trade? Violence? The economy? Health problems? It makes me want to close my eyes tight, plug my ears, and say, "Lalalalalala".

But then nothing changes. More orphans. More slaves. More violence. More money problems. More health problems. Or... we can start to make a difference one small starfish at a time. 

The older I get, the more I realize the way to make a difference is baby steps, one small move at a time, a little time here, a little money there, a little help here, a little prayer there. 

The middle schoolers in our town raised $900 in QUARTERS. A quarter here and a quarter there. The starfish way works! 

The last time I had a blog was when we were on our way to bring our baby home. Our family and friends have always been there for us, supporting our adoption of Reese and our love of his country and the beautiful children and families there. It only seems appropriate that we bring you along to see the impact you've made on Children of the Promise and Haiti. 

We leave tomorrow morning with a team of 15 friends and family for Haiti. We would love for you to follow our adventure. Hopefully this time, it won't involve being detained by the Haitian police. :)

 Up next: The Impact and Difference You've Already Made